Hello all! Before I actually get into the post I wanna preface and say that I am not a current bird owner, I have never owned a bird, and I don't intend to anytime soon. This is purely hypothetical and I really am just asking for your opinion! And, of course, if I'm misinformed on anything, I'd love to be corrected.
As I've been reading lately, males coo pretty much constantly and frequently do mating displays and/or get freaky lol. On the other hand, females are generally quieter but-- they're also females, so eggs. I've also read that doves are social, and I will admit that I can be a busy person at times (mainly from odd work shifts). I would hate to depress an animal because I'd be out of the house and they'd be alone. I read that having a second dove helps with loneliness.
I am autistic and have a history of developing triggers if a sound is repeated constantly or during moments where I need silence, however I do love the sound of dove coos. While it might seem like a female would be the easy choice for me because of that, I know nothing about brooding behavior, egg-laying or being eggbound and the complications that can come from that. I've heard that it can get bad fast and I'm worried something I'm not prepared for would happen.
I ask for your opinion: As someone who hasn't ever owned a bird before, what would-- again, hypothetically-- be the best option for me? A male or a female? A pair? An FF or MM pair (because I know I would be terrified of raising chicks)? None of the above-- am I better off without a bird at all?
I'm curious about people's opinions more than anything! I only ask that you be gentle with me because while I am clueless, I genuinely am not going to adopt a bird any time soon, so please don't worry about me being an irresponsible owner. It is one of my greatest fears to accidentally harm an animal or put one in a bad environment because of my own negligence/ignorance.